This has always been a manta in my life:  Action = Reaction   Do the right thing, and you’ll most likely get a good result.   A negative action, and you’ll probably get repercussions in one direction or another.  My kids can attest to this.  And Zella dog?  She knows via training, that there will be a leash if she doesn’t walk with me.  Got kids?  Your relationship?  It’s up to you….the truth always comes out later or sooner ;)